Top Tips for Sexual Purity

Top Tip 012 – I Have a Sexual Addiction, Now What?

February 27, 2012

Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download – On the last podcast I talked about “How Do I Know if I Have a Sexual Addiction?” In the article, I shared that your sexual behaviors have turned into an addiction when: You can’t stop. Your behaviors get worse. You need more of the behavior to feed [...]

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Top Tip 011 – How Do I Know I Have a Sexual Addiction?

February 23, 2012

Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download – I watch Internet porn all the time… but am I addicted? I have sex with my girlfriend most of the times we go out… is that a sexual addiction? I masturbate almost every day, but I feel bad about it… that wouldn’t be a sexual addiction, would [...]

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Top Tip 010 – Building a Computer Purity Strategy

February 20, 2012

Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download – Dealing with the computer is one of the key strategies for succeeding in sexual purity and sexual recovery. Protecting your computer and yourself from porn is easy to do with some basic steps.  Just to clarify, we’re talking about roadblocks today.  These are defensive purity strategies.  In [...]

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Top Tip 009 – Purity Tips For Your Vacation or Cruise

February 17, 2012

Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download – Hey everyone!  My wife and I just got back from our first cruise.  It’s taken a few days for us to get readjusted.    While it’s fresh on my mind, I wanted to share some purity tips for vacations. I have indicated some special places where I have [...]

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Top Tip 008 – Suggestions For a Travel Purity Strategy

January 30, 2012

Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download – Many people have jobs that require them to travel a lot. This can be very difficult for someone who struggles with pornography and sexual sin. No accountability Anonymity Lack of relationships Lots of time alone The point of today is:  think about your travel time and develop [...]

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Top Tip 007 – You Need a Down Time Strategy

January 27, 2012

  Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download – Today I was to share some thoughts and tips about down time.  This also applies to alone time.  Alone time is alone time.  Downtime has more to do with times that you are not engaged in your normal routine.  I’ve found that down time can be [...]

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Top Tip 006 – Lust Hurts My Intimacy

January 23, 2012

  Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download – I was thinking this morning back to the times when my wife and I were struggling in our intimacy during our first 8-10 years of our marriage.  Our counselor recently asked ups about our intimacy during our first 6 months of marriage and then how things [...]

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BONUS: How to Deal With Pockets of Shame

January 21, 2012

Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download this BONUS podcast When I entered recovery I wanted to heal.  I wanted to get as well as possible.  Some of the biggest obstacles in the way of being healthy are the pockets of shame I had. At first it was large chunks of shame.  Entire themes of [...]

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Top Tip 005 – Close The Loopholes

January 19, 2012

Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download – We have to close the loopholes in our sexual purity strategy.  Can’t be any holes that we know about. None of us are going to have a perfect strategy.  We can’t see everything or anticipate everything.  Others around us who are involved with us, even they can’t [...]

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Top Tip 004 – Create No Shame Zones

January 16, 2012

Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download – Recently, I interviewed Jonathan Daughtery of Be Broken Ministries for our Porn to Purity Podcast.  We talked about the subject of shame, and he said something that blew me away.  He said in the support groups he leads, he has esttblished “No Shame Zones”. The idea of [...]

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Top Tip 003 – Friction Can Be Productive

January 12, 2012

Press HERE to Play Podcast or Download – In our SA recovery and purity journey we wish that everything would be smooth and perfect, don’t we.  We wish we wouldn’t have to deal with pain, hurts, consequences, woundings, suffering, broken relationships, arguments and fights, conflict, struggles, withdrawals, and difference of opinions.  These bring friction to [...]

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